Technology, phones and social media
In my role as Head of Senior School at Toowoomba Grammar School, I have the privilege of witnessing daily the wonderful opportunities that technology brings to our students' education. Unfortunately, I also see the impact it can have when not used responsibly. I take this opportunity to remind you all of an increasingly important issue: the safety of our children in the digital world.
You will have received a statement this week from the School highlighting that we are now asking parents to delay giving their sons a smartphone until after Year 7. Further to this it is also important to remind families with boys currently in Year 7 to 10 that the Australian Government is going to place age restrictions on children under 16 accessing social media. You can find more information here Social media age restrictions | eSafety Commissioner.
It is timely that parents start having a conversation with their sons about their use of social media. Toowoomba Grammar School supports these actions. We have always been a phone-free school and recognise the impact that phones and social media are having on our young people.
Why This Matters
Research consistently shows that premature exposure to social media can impact:
- Emotional Development: Children may encounter content they're not emotionally equipped to process
- Sleep Patterns: Screen time before bed can significantly affect sleep quality
- Academic Performance: Constant connectivity can impact concentration and learning
- Social Development: Online interactions shouldn't replace crucial face-to-face social experiences
- Mental Health: Early social media use has been linked to increased anxiety and decreased self-esteem
Our School's Commitment
At Toowoomba Grammar School, we are committed to:
- Protecting our students' wellbeing
- Providing age-appropriate digital education
- Supporting parents in navigating these challenges
- Maintaining clear policies around technology use
- Creating a safe learning environment, both online and offline
Action Steps for Parents
The eSafety Commissioner reports that children benefit most from
- Supervised online activities
- Age-appropriate educational content
- Clear boundaries around device use
- Open family discussions about online safety
Given these factors we ask each family to agree that by the commencement of next term they will remove their children from social media until they are old enough, according to the government requirements, to access those platforms, that each family will check child safe settings on devices accessed by their children and they will discuss the importance of compliance with this request with their children. If all parents share responsibility for managing access, we can improve the safety of our young men and help to maintain their wellbeing.
I appreciate that some families may feel that access to technology is a decision for parents, not the school or government. However, where many social media platforms themselves prohibit access by children under the age of 13 we consider that this is a reasonable request as part of our commitment to improving cyber-safety where we can.
Community Standards and Social Media Guidelines
At Toowoomba Grammar School, we have clear expectations for social media use that align with our school's official guidelines. These standards apply to all members of our school community - parents, students, staff, Old Boys, volunteers and contractors. These guidelines are in place to ensure that all online communications are appropriate and respectful. Members of the community communicating in a way that is contrary to these guidelines may face disciplinary action. You can access these guidelines here.
Similarly, if boys communicate online in a way contrary to these guidelines, it may be in breach of the Student Behaviour Management Policy and the Enrolment Agreement, which could lead to disciplinary action up to termination of enrolment.
The digital world offers tremendous opportunities for our children, but it requires careful navigation and supervision. By working together as a community, we can ensure our students develop into responsible digital citizens who can harness technology's benefits while avoiding its pitfalls.
End of School Year
Speech Night is scheduled for Wednesday, 26 November and it is compulsory for all students to attend. This is the most important night of the TGS school year and your son's presence is essential. We understand that some students may have work or part-time jobs, but please note that these are not valid excuses for missing this event. If, for any reason, your son is unable to attend, we must hear from you directly.
Additionally, students are required to attend school up until 3:10 PM on Thursday, 27 November. There will be a roll call to ensure everyone is present.
As we approach the assessment period, it is crucial for our students to work hard and stay organised. Planning study time and working on assignments well before their due dates will help manage their workload and reduce stress. Furthermore, actioning draft feedback and receiving results after assessments have been marked is a crucial part of the learning process. Please encourage your son to use this feedback to improve and learn from any mistakes.
If your son is worried as he approaches the assessment period, encourage him to speak to his Teacher, Mentor or Head of House.
Finally, as we approach the end of year events it is important that your son is well presented, hair must be neat and tidy, shoes polished and the boys need to wear their uniform with pride. The boys must wear their Akubra to school every day as it is part of the uniform.
Thank you for your attention and support. I look forward to seeing many of at Speech Night and other end of year events.
Mark Oliphant
Head of Senior School

